for those who had arranged marriage

I got married recently.I had an formally arranged typical Indian wedding.Wedding is a real fun for everybody.But the life after that is the first hurdle for the bride and groom.If you cross the first year in your wedding life,then you should really pat your shoulders. Understanding is the most important thing in life(as everybody says).After a week of romance and stuffs,life gets back to normal and we start our day to day routine activities.Here starts the real problem.The most difficult thing on the earth is to live with someone under the same roof.I think even if you live with the best person or the one whom you love the most,problems do arise. And when the girl and boy are from completely different back ground, problems arises right from the first day. The problem starts with girls, because they see a lot of movies and think that guys should take care of them like a baby, forgetting that it has to be opposite. And guys have to treat his wife equally.He should not bring an idea to his wife that he is a male chauvinist.If both of them have different ideas and behaviour, then instead of one changing for the other,both of you come to common conclusions. So it will be unbiased and fair to both of them.Give respect to your husband/wife's feelings. Live and let live:))